I have a number of guy friends who seem to have no idea that their girlfriends are not into them anymore. Their excuses range from "she had a bad day.", "she is not in the mood.". It is sad when one needs to point out the reality that the girl merely changed her heart and does not like you the way she used to. So this list is for them. Read on.
1. For every 10 texts, you only get one text. She is delaying her response to you. She doesn't want to deal with you now. Maybe during the day, when she gets bored, she will get around to doing the polite thing and send you a response.
2. She does not make the effort to look nice. When the two of you are dating, she wears her baggy clothes and hardly wears any make up. The stiletto shoes are kept in the closet. You will also notice that her body is not physically close to you, seemingly screaming to everyone "Im not his date. We are not romantically together. "
3. She hardly makes any eye contact. A girl who is interested in you will want to look into your eyes to feel your moods. She spends a lot of time gazing into you and making contact. Looking into each other's eyes is a way of making that special connection.
4. Women are basically very verbal. So if her text messages to you are always short, chances are she is merely connecting with you in the most minimal way. But a woman who is into you , would not want to miss out the chance of flirting with you and letting you know you are "special" to her. Compare these two texts.
Boy: "How are you today?"
Girl: " Fine"
Boy: 'How are you today?"
Girl: "Im fine. Thanks for asking. I really had a great time last night. See you soon!"
5. She erases all your text messages. If she is into you, she would want to read and re-read your sweet messages to her. So unless yours is a secret affair or her memory is full, there is no reason why she would always want to erase your text messages, especially if she carries an Iphone.
6. She hardly smiles and she seems distracted. When a girl meets the man she loves, the very thought of it would put a beautiful smile on her face. And when you two are together, the world collapses and her thoughts are yours alone. So if you notice that every time you meet, she is frowning, distracted and always in the bad mood, well, that's your sign that she isn't in to you anymore, and is wishing she is somewhere else, any place but with you.
7. She is easily irritated with your mannerisms, behavior or opinions. Suddenly, you cannot seem to do anything right by her. You eat too loud, or you drive too fast. Whereas before, she considers this "cute" and delights in your adventures.
8. She is always busy. When you asks her out, she always seems to be busy. When you call her up, you can't even get hold of her for more than 5 minutes and she needs to do something else. A woman who is in love will always find the time to be with you. She would work non-stop just to free up that special day for you.
9. She is not interested in your stories. When you talk about your day, she only listens half-heartedly and responds when necessary. A woman is usually opinionated and would have response to every story on earth. So if she is suddenly impatient with your story and does not encourage you to talk further on the topic, she is most likely not into you. A woman has a nurturing spirit. She wants to know very much what is going on with her man. So if she is not interested, that is quite going against her nature or she is just not into you.
10. She disrespects you. She is almost always annoyed with you. I've seen countless of women who treat their boyfriends so shabbily. And the boys have no idea that their girlfriends are just not into them anymore. They have no respect for their beaus. The boyfriends become like a driver, electrician, plumber and delivery boys all rolled into one. She does not care if you don't like Burrito , you are still going to that mexican restaurant. She puts you down in front of her friends.
1. For every 10 texts, you only get one text. She is delaying her response to you. She doesn't want to deal with you now. Maybe during the day, when she gets bored, she will get around to doing the polite thing and send you a response.
2. She does not make the effort to look nice. When the two of you are dating, she wears her baggy clothes and hardly wears any make up. The stiletto shoes are kept in the closet. You will also notice that her body is not physically close to you, seemingly screaming to everyone "Im not his date. We are not romantically together. "
3. She hardly makes any eye contact. A girl who is interested in you will want to look into your eyes to feel your moods. She spends a lot of time gazing into you and making contact. Looking into each other's eyes is a way of making that special connection.
4. Women are basically very verbal. So if her text messages to you are always short, chances are she is merely connecting with you in the most minimal way. But a woman who is into you , would not want to miss out the chance of flirting with you and letting you know you are "special" to her. Compare these two texts.
Boy: "How are you today?"
Girl: " Fine"
Boy: 'How are you today?"
Girl: "Im fine. Thanks for asking. I really had a great time last night. See you soon!"
5. She erases all your text messages. If she is into you, she would want to read and re-read your sweet messages to her. So unless yours is a secret affair or her memory is full, there is no reason why she would always want to erase your text messages, especially if she carries an Iphone.
6. She hardly smiles and she seems distracted. When a girl meets the man she loves, the very thought of it would put a beautiful smile on her face. And when you two are together, the world collapses and her thoughts are yours alone. So if you notice that every time you meet, she is frowning, distracted and always in the bad mood, well, that's your sign that she isn't in to you anymore, and is wishing she is somewhere else, any place but with you.
7. She is easily irritated with your mannerisms, behavior or opinions. Suddenly, you cannot seem to do anything right by her. You eat too loud, or you drive too fast. Whereas before, she considers this "cute" and delights in your adventures.
8. She is always busy. When you asks her out, she always seems to be busy. When you call her up, you can't even get hold of her for more than 5 minutes and she needs to do something else. A woman who is in love will always find the time to be with you. She would work non-stop just to free up that special day for you.
9. She is not interested in your stories. When you talk about your day, she only listens half-heartedly and responds when necessary. A woman is usually opinionated and would have response to every story on earth. So if she is suddenly impatient with your story and does not encourage you to talk further on the topic, she is most likely not into you. A woman has a nurturing spirit. She wants to know very much what is going on with her man. So if she is not interested, that is quite going against her nature or she is just not into you.
10. She disrespects you. She is almost always annoyed with you. I've seen countless of women who treat their boyfriends so shabbily. And the boys have no idea that their girlfriends are just not into them anymore. They have no respect for their beaus. The boyfriends become like a driver, electrician, plumber and delivery boys all rolled into one. She does not care if you don't like Burrito , you are still going to that mexican restaurant. She puts you down in front of her friends.
geez, and i guess this works both ways too =)
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